Why build it
Too many people avoid lending because they do not want the fallout
A lot of people I know would rather avoid lending money altogether because they have seen what it can do to a
relationship. Others decide that if they help at all, it has to become a gift. I understand that instinct,
but I do not think every meaningful expense should quietly become free just because follow-up feels
uncomfortable.
What matters to me
Help can still come with responsibility
At least for my own kids, I do not want support to teach that everything simply gets handed over. I want help
to feel generous without losing the lesson that money matters, plans matter, and paying something back can be
part of growing up without turning every bump in the road into a bigger problem.